Editing József Barsi

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{{Villain_Infobox|Image =Jozsef_Barsi.png |fullname = József Barsi|alias = Arizona Joe|hobby = Being a Banjo/Fiddle Musician|crimes = [[Domestic Abuse|Domestic abuse]]<br>[[Murder]]<br>[[Familicide]]<br>[[Child Abuse|Child abuse]]|skills = Musical Skills,
The fear that his family feels towards him|type of villain = Insecure Abuser|occupation = Pluming Contractor|origin = Hungary}}
'''József Istvan''' '''“Arizona Joe”<ref name="latimes" /> Barsi''' (November 26<sup>th</sup>, 1932 – July 27<sup>th</sup>, 1988) was a Hungarian-American plumbing contractor and banjo/fiddle musician<ref name="lundberg">[http://judithbarsi.dc-lundberg.net/ Judith Barsi in Memoriam]</ref> who was best known as the father of the child actress [[wikipedia:Judith Barsi|Judith Barsi]]. Burdened by low self-esteem, stemming from mockery over his Hungarian accent and the social rejection he suffered in Hungary, József developed a drinking problem and a paranoid personality which was to torment him throughout his life, culminating in him murdering his wife and daughter before taking his own life.

==Early life and marriages==
[[File:Jozsef,_Klara,_Agi_&_Barna.png|thumb|József with his first wife, Klara, and their two children, Ági (left) and Barna (right).|link=Special:FilePath/Jozsef,_Klara,_Agi_&_Barna.png]]
József was born on November 26<sup>th</sup>, 1932; in a “[rough] industrial” area of Hungary,<ref name="latimes" /> during the reign of [[wikipedia:Miklós Horthy|Admiral Horthy]]. His surname indicates that his ancestors probably came from [[Wikipedia:Bars County|Bars]], modern day [[Wikipedia:Tekov|Tekov]] in [[Wikipedia:Slovakia|Slovakia]]. An [[wikipedia:Legitimacy (law)|illegitimate]] child, József never knew his father and suffered from social rejection and bullying by other children and from his own school teachers.<ref name="Documentary" /><ref name="agibarsi" /> His first daughter, Ági, later speculated that József resented his mother for allowing his father to abandon him, and consequently [[Misogyny|viewed all women as “whores”]].<ref name="agibarsi" />

At age 19, József [[wikipedia:Hungarian diaspora|fled]] his now [[wikipedia:People's Republic of Hungary|Communist-ruled homeland]] after the [[wikipedia:1956 Hungarian Revolution#Soviet intervention of 4 November|1956 Soviet occupation]]. He initially settled in [[wikipedia:France|France]] and married a fellow Hungarian refugee named Klara, with whom he had two children, a son named Barna (1957-1995), and a daughter named Ági (1958-2008). József soon developed a [[w:alcoholism|drinking problem]] and began to physically abuse his wife.<ref name="agibarsi">Barsi, Ági (1999), ''What will you do?'', A Better Life, ISBN 0967169399</ref>
[[File:Barsi Couple.jpg|thumb|right|József with his second wife, Maria.|link=Special:FilePath/Barsi_Couple.jpg]]
After the family moved to New York in 1964, József [[Child Abuse|extended his abuse]] to his son Barna, prompting Klara to escape with the children to Arizona five years later. Although József attempted to reconcile himself with his family, Klara filed for divorce after he threw a cast-iron skillet at her in a drunken rage. Shortly after the divorce, József moved to California,<ref name="agibarsi" /> where he worked as a plumbing contractor. There, he met Maria Virovacz, a waitress in a Los Angeles restaurant known as a meeting place for immigrants.<ref name="latimes" />

Maria, herself a Hungarian immigrant escaping the Soviet occupation, was born in rural southern Hungary,<ref name="latimes" /> and suffered psychological and physical abuse from her father. The two married, and Judith's birth quickly followed in Los Angeles, California, where Judith was raised.<ref name="Documentary" />

==Domestic abuse==
[[File:Jozsef_&_Judith_Barsi.png|thumb|József with his daughter, Judith.|link=Special:FilePath/Jozsef_&_Judith_Barsi.png]]
Maria Barsi soon began grooming her daughter to become an actress.<ref name="latimes">Johnson, J. [http://articles.latimes.com/1988-08-07/local/me-382_1_child-abuse A Script of Fear : Repeated Threats by Father of Child Actress Carried to Tragic End], ''LA Times'' (August 7, 1988)</ref> At five, Judith was discovered at a skating rink.<ref name="latimes" /> She appeared in over 70 commercials and guest-starring roles on television.<ref name="latimes1">[http://articles.latimes.com/1988-08-23/local/me-919_1_child-abuse-files Local News in Brief : Child-Abuse Files Ordered Opened], ''LA Times'' (August 23, 1988)</ref>

As Judith's career successfully increased, József became increasingly abusive, jealous, and paranoid, and would routinely threaten to kill himself, his wife, and daughter.<ref name="NE">Girl who appeared on 'Growing Pains' told show's star: My dad says he's going to kill me! ''The National Enquirer'', (September 9, 1988)</ref> His alcoholism worsened and resulted in him getting arrested three times for drunk driving.<ref name="latimes" /> In December 1986, Maria reported his threats to the police and also reported that József had hit her in the face and choked her. After police found no physical signs of abuse, Maria eventually decided not to press charges against József.<ref name="latimes" />

After the incident, József reportedly stopped drinking but continued to threaten and abuse his wife and daughter. Before Judith left to shoot ''Jaws: The Revenge'' in the Bahamas, József threatened Judith with a knife, telling her, “If you decide not to come back, I will cut your throat.”<ref name="latimes" /> Maria stated that József showed her where he kept his gasoline and warned her he intended to burn the house down if she and Judith left. He reportedly hid a telegram informing Maria that a relative in Hungary had died, to prevent her and Judith from leaving America.<ref name="sherry">[http://articles.latimes.com/1988-09-18/news/vw-2980_1_family-tragedy A Lesson Learned From Family Tragedy], ''LA Times'' (September 18, 1988)</ref> Judith told her best friend that József, in a fit of rage, once threw pots and pans at her in the kitchen, giving her a nosebleed.<ref name="NE" /> Because of her father's abuse, Judith began putting on weight<ref name="sherry" /> and plucking out her eyelashes and pulling out her cat's whiskers.<ref name="latimes" /> After breaking down in front of her agent during a singing audition for ''All Dogs Go to Heaven'', Judith was taken by Maria to a child psychologist, who identified severe physical and emotional abuse and reported her findings to Child Protective Services.<ref name="latimes" />

The investigation was dropped after Maria assured the caseworker that she intended to start divorce proceedings against József and that she and Judith would move into a Panorama City apartment she had recently rented as a daytime haven away from József.<ref>[http://articles.latimes.com/1988-09-07/local/me-1411_1_judith-barsi Inquiry in Barsi Case Dropped Too Soon, Panel Says], ''LA Times'' (September 7, 1988)</ref> Friends urged Maria to follow through with the plan, but she resisted reportedly because she did not want to lose the family home and belongings.<ref name="latimes" /> As József was obsessed with cleanliness, Maria stopped cleaning the family home to drive him out. Judith's half-sister Ági visited the house and later described it as a “living pigpen”.<ref name="Documentary" /> A week before the murder-suicide, Maria told a next-door neighbor that she intended to cash her daughter's $12,000 federal tax refund check before József could get it.<ref name="fuentes" />

==Murder-suicide==
Judith was last seen on the morning of Monday, July 25<sup>th</sup>, 1988; while she was riding her bike on her street.<ref name="Documentary">[http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zqsL2c73OHc DEATH OF A FAMILY - Judith Barsi's story], ''Arnold Shapiro Productions'' (1989)</ref> On that same night, József shot Judith in the head while she was asleep in her room. Maria, hearing the gunshot, ran down the hall where József met her and shot her. József spent the next two days wandering around the house,<ref name="Documentary" /> and said during a phone call with Judith's agent on Tuesday night that he intended to move out for good, and just needed time to “say goodbye to [my] little girl.”<ref name="latimes" /> Then, he poured gasoline on the bodies and set the two of them on fire.<ref>[http://articles.latimes.com/1988-07-29/local/me-7875_1_child-actress Local News in Brief : Bodies Identified as Child Actress, Mother], ''LA Times'' (July 29, 1988)</ref> Later, he went into the garage and shot himself in the head with a .32 caliber pistol. <ref name="fuentes">[http://articles.latimes.com/1988-07-28/local/me-9912_1_apparent-murder-suicide Three Dead in Apparent Murder-Suicide], ''LA Times'' (July 28, 1988)</ref><ref>[http://www.nytimes.com/1988/07/30/us/child-actress-is-slain-apparently-by-father.html Child Actress Is Slain, Apparently by Father], ''NY Times'' (July 30, 1988)</ref>

==Aftermath==
While Judith and Maria were buried together at Forest Lawn Memorial Park on August 9<sup>th</sup>, 1988; the location of József's grave is a mystery, and so is whether he was even buried or cremated.<ref name="lundberg" />

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